I chose a different kind of verse, not typical for
funerals, but it kept speaking to me about June, so I decided to go with it
anyway.
The people of this world are more shrewd in dealing
with their own kind than are the children of the light.
And Lord knows sometimes it is difficult to be a
child of the light in this world, whereas the shrewd learn to play the game: The
game of pretense and double dealing and using people, and all that makes it
difficult for the child of the light to make it through.
But the one thing that a child of the light has
is love, and there is no question that June Meitz was a child of the light. She
was a Sunday School teacher, a mom, a singer of songs, a takerer of pictures,
and she did all of those things because she was a cherisher of people, and she
knew that those things could bring back memories people, allowing her to feel
that love again.
A heart full of love like that of a child of the
light knows what is important, and holds to it, whether it be a photo or the
simple gift that a child made for her in Sunday School. She would cherish it and
keep them, for she knew such things, and their power. Love teaches you that.
And its not just love, but light, because it is love
and light connected to Jesus Christ, and the children of the light reflect his
light, and the more dark the world seems to get, the more bright the light appears,
and it’ true that sometimes such brightness would make you look away, and you
might need a reflection.
June saw these reflections in people and she was
a reflection herself. I can see that today, as I look around at all of you, whose
lives were touched by Junes, how strong her reflection of the light was and is.
Especially her blood family and her church family,
and truly anyone who would meet her because meeting her was being family. She
did not know any other way to treat someone.
I came to Bethany, just after Paul died, though I
was blessed to meet Paul as part of the Pastoral Nominating Committee, and having
gone to Hampden-Sydney, I share many common friends with Mark, so I had some
context into their family upon arriving, but I first met June then after Paul had
died.
And I met someone whose mind was swimming,
confused by the harshness of this world. Remember now a child of the light might
have trouble in a world like ours, not understanding, but I came to realize
maybe she understood somethings the rest of us didn’t.
And one thing I could always see and hear in her
was that she was definitely a child of the light, no matter what could happen.
And that being the case, she was ready. Mark said yesterday, that something he knew
about and I remembered it from my teaching days was that planning backwards –
focus on the end and count back – was always a good way of achieving a goal.
She did, she was ready for her moment, and so how
appropriate the words in her obituary are when it said that she was running to
be with Jesus. . . and Paul, and Scott.
I came across these words in a song by Merle Haggard
and had shared them with the church because it they seemed to put to words some
of the feelings that must have been swimming through and racing through June’s
head these past two years.
If I could only fly. . . if I could only fly
I’d kiss this world goodbye and be with you
But I can hardly stand, and I’ve got no where to run
Another setting sun, and one more lonely night
Time can be cruel thing, as can be the limitations
of our bodies, but now she can fly. . .
And now she can bridge the expanse between here
and there, and be with everyone that she loves. . . here and there.
Alleghany
Memorial Garden, Clifton Forge, Virginia
Call to Worship:
We
are gathered here as the clock strikes noon, or there abouts, to celebrate and
remember the life of Vera Goodwin Fisher, and to witness to the resurrection,
made possible by the Life, Death, and Resurrection of our Lord and Savior Jesus
Christ.
We'll
begin with a familiar statement from scripture, of the Love and Protection God
provides, Psalm 23
1 The
LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want. 2 He maketh me to lie
down in green
pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. 3 He restoreth my
soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake. 4
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no
evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. 5
Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou
anointest
my head with oil; my cup runneth over. 6 Surely goodness and mercy
shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the
LORD for ever.
[1]
Prayer
Let us pray:
Eternal God, maker of heaven and earth:
you formed us from the dust of the earth,
and by your breath you gave us life.
We glorify you.
Jesus Christ, the resurrection and the life,
You tasted death for all humanity
and by rising from the grave
You opened the way to eternal life,
We praise you.
Holy Spirit, author and giver of life;
You are the comforter of all who sorrow,
our sure confidence
and everlasting hope.
We worship you.
To you Oblessed Trinity,
be glory and honor, forever and ever. Amen.
Prayer for
Illumination
Source of all true wisdom
calm the troubled waters of our hearts,
and still all other voices but your own,
that we may hear and obey
what you tell us in your Word,
Through the power of your Spirit.
Amen.
Homily – Her Own
Way
They, who ever
they is, they say in the Bible that there are only 4 kinds of love. I think
such people are trapped in the notion that because there are 4 different Greek
words that mean love there must only be four
different kinds.
1 Corinthians
tells us that Love is patient and kind and slow to anger, that it never fails,
that it ranks with faith and hope, but somehow always pulls ahead in the race
towards greatness.
It tells us that
without love we are nothing, or much worse a loud clanging cymbal, the kind
that Nana could hear in the other room, or maybe it was just the sounds coming
out of the big bedroom at the camp. . .
And to know Nana
is to know that there must be another definition of love. There must be more
than merely 4 types. There must be a type all her own, for she had so many ways
that she would show her love. . .
So I want to use
this other definition, and it is also a scriptural definition, and so just as
important as those others. Just as prominent, just as needed, and just as profound
if not as poetic:
“Love must be sincere.” –Romans
12:9
Meaning That it is pure, that it is clean.That means that it is there at the heart, and
is true at the heart, and is real at the heart—there, true, and real in the
heart.
That it isn’t fake.
It comes from a Latin pair of roots that when jammed together means – “without”
– sine and “wax” – cere.
“Without wax.” Without pretense, some might even say without show,
without anything fake.
The truth is that Nana’s love breaks through the notion that there are
only 4 types because her love, at least the ways she’s showed it, was different.
It was different in different situations, and it was different for and to each
of us, the way she showed it was different.
But the one unifying principle was that it was sincere. Underneath it all,
there at the heart was love.
Think for a minute how she showed her love to you.
Was it always patient?
Was it always kind?
Was it always slow to anger?
Yet I bet it was always sincere. Again, as I said, underneath it all.
And maybe she showed it by a thousand little things like:
Not being but so mad when you took her stuffed animals and put them down
the laundry chute. Or maybe that after doing it once, you showed up the next
time and there were more bears to do it to.
Maybe it was a Christmas spread, with cold shrimp, rolls and potato chip
dip, and apparently there was some potato salad, too.
Maybe it was imposing a 5 dollar fine for whining, and not seeing the
irony in it at all.
Maybe it was that deep down you knew there was something to this lady
because she loved the song that goes “I like my women just a little on the
trashy side.” Again, no irony.
Or Grandma got run over by a reindeer, no irony.
Or maybe it was being the one a loving man loved, and maybe that is not
as easy as it would seem.
Especially when you have the power and vision to see a tick around the
corner, or a mosquito, or a you name it, if it was a problem, she was going to
point it out.
And maybe the fact that she couldn’t let things go, could make you feel
bad, or sad, or guilty, or a number of feelings, and that those things could
pile up year upon year. It never meant that love was not there, sincerely,
without wax at the bottom of it all, at the heart level.
Maybe knowing that was true was what could make it all so much more
painful.
But then you might think that there was some pain on her end too.
Because there is a tough façade to a woman like nana, but she is also,
one who taught me something special about love.
That if you can find a way to communicate your love to someone, you
should cherish it because such things also are not as easy it would seem.
We always wish for one more way.
But at the same time, we really don’t need it because really we know,
love is there, and it always was. No matter what.
And still is, no matter what.
Because nothing can separate us from it.
Certainly not death
For such things have no power, as we thought they might.
Prayer
of Thanksgiving and Lord’s Prayer
O God, before whom generations rise and pass away,
we praise you for all your servants, who, having
lived this life in faith
Now live eternally with you.
Especially we thank you for your servant Vera, whose
baptism is now complete in death. We praise you for the gift of her life, for
all in her that was good and kind and faithful, for the grace you gave her,
that kindled in her the love of your dear name, and enabled her to serve you
faithfully throughout all her years.
We thank you that for her death is past and pain has
now ended, and that she has now entered into the joy you have prepared.For in Jesus Christ you promised many rooms
within your house. Give us faith to see, beyond touch and sight, some sure sign
of your kingdom, and where vision fails, to trust your love which never fails.
Lift our heavy sorrow and our joy, mixed in all of our memories, and give us
hope in Jesus Christ, in whom we give all praise and glory, and humbly pray, as
he taught us saying. . .
Our
Father
Commendation
You are immortal,
the creator and maker of all. We are mortal, formed of the earth, and to earth
we shall return. This you ordained when you created us, saying, "You are
dust and to dust you shall return." All of us go down to the dust; yet
even at the grave we make our song: Alleluia, alleluia, alleluia. Give rest to
your servant, with all your saints, where there is neither pain, nor sorrow,
nor sighing, and not even a five dollar fine, for there be no whining, but life
ever lasting.
Holy God, by your
creative power you gave us life, and in your redeeming love you have given us
new life in Christ. We commend Vera, Nana to your merciful care in the faith of
Christ our Lord who died and rose again to save us, and who now lives and
reigns with you and the Holy Spirit one God, now and forever.
Benediction
Go in Peace, and find ways to show your love in all you do. Amen.
[1]The
Holy Bible : King James Version. 1995 (electronic ed. of the 1769 edition
of the 1611 Authorized Version.) (Ps 23:1-6). Bellingham WA: Logos Research
Systems, Inc.
In Plain Sight For Velma and Chuck in memory of Chris
We can’t always see it,
The light that lights the world.
It just is, and no longer dark,
But sometimes when the angle
Is just right, and the certain slant
Peaks through the shadows,
And there’s just enough mist
Or dust, or something, the ray
Reveals itself, visible in a line
Straight to heaven. And we don’t
Think angle then, but angel,
And not mere dust, but breath,
Holy and illumined, and our heart
Finds rest. Such times are not just
Nature, but miracle, given at just
The right time, like a rainbow,
Or a friend, or the answer to a prayer.
Again we find peace, passing all
Our understanding, but unmistakable
In our hearts as knowing feeling,
And thus more true and more beautiful
Even than the sunflowers standing
There in plain sight, just right.
Living the Words on the Page
for Gabrielle
May 25, 2019
“I can do all things, through Christ who gives me strength,”
I must say you’ve chosen great words of power.
Do you want to know the key to unlocking those words?
Because you know those words are meaningless,
At least they are on their own. They are simply
The markers, the reminders, the mere mention
Of the power lurking within them, and they feel good,
Sound good, look good, written, engraved, printed,
Stuck on a bumper, or hash-tagged and shared,
But they are only words.
They are like the words on your diploma:
Gabrielle Frances Jackson, High School Graduate.
Just some words on a page, marking truth,
Job done, box checked, rite of passage passed.
But depth lies underneath and inside words.
You know this better than most because
You took a different journey from most of us,
And your paper reads the same as ours does,
But it represents for you a story, of struggle,
Triumph, fear, failure, fighting, friendship,
Worry, panic, patience, peace, prayer, love.
Life. Don’t flee from it. Embrace it. All.
The key to the meaning of words is the life behind them.
I can do All things through Christ, who gives me strength.
Live these words. Embrace All the things you are doing
Because Christ has given you strength to do them.
These words are not for some future thing left undone,
Leaving All undone and untried because you fear failing,
Knowing such failing could cost you Your faith, and you
Hold your faith tightly in your hand, protecting it at All
Cost, but inside you know that doing such is not to use
Faith at All, leaving it only as words, remembered, but
Left there on the page, like they’re placed inside a tomb.
No, roll the stone away, let them live through your moments,
Each moment, All moments, and then, and only then
Will you find the strength to do All things. . . Right now,
This moment, and always. Living the words makes them
Living words...
The
most important because it is in many ways where we are as a church, as people,
as a nation
The
moment when we look to shift from Discernment to Resolution
Have you ever been there?
ON the precipice
of action – that undiscovered country from whence no man comes –
Any
one recognize the quote – the source – Hamlet – To be or not to be
High
point of Western literature – is about this moment – what am I supposed to do
and be?
And
what happens next after the decision is made --- right it is daunting because
the only thing that is true about action – is that the results are unknown.
In
many ways it is easier to keep seeking, keep discerning. . . there is safety in
the questions and danger in the answers.
But
how many people of the people you look up to. . . because they are resolute
Since my dear soul was mistress of her choice And could of men distinguish, her election Hath seal'd thee for herself; for thou hast been As one, in suffering all, that suffers nothing, A man that fortune's buffets and rewards Hast ta'en with equal thanks: and blest are
those Whose blood and judgment are so well commingled, That they are not a pipe for fortune's finger To sound what stop she please. Give me that man That is not passion's slave, and I will wear him In my heart's core, ay, in my heart of heart, As I do thee.
We recognize it,
we value it, but we tend to be more like Hamlet than Horatio
Because it is hard
to know for sure. . .
During the Lenten Discipline
these sermons have worked as introductions to the week
What I tried to do
was create last step checks to make sure our discernment is true. . . and that
is to set them up against Jesus. And what he says about discipleship
For no matter what
we do, we must have Christ in all of His fullness be at the center of it all.
Look at these
scripture passages first the Old Testament
Isaiah 28: 16-19
16 So this is what the Sovereign Lord says:
“See, I lay a stone in Zion, a tested stone, a precious cornerstone for a
sure foundation;
the one who relies on it will never be stricken with
panic. 17 I will make justice the measuring
line and righteousness the plumb
line;
hail will sweep away your refuge, the lie, and water will
overflow your hiding place. 18 Your covenant with death will be annulled; your agreement with the realm
of the dead will not stand.
When the overwhelming scourge sweeps by, you will be beaten
down by it. 19 As often as it comes it will carry you
away; morning after morning, by
day and by night, it will sweep through.”
Sure
foundation – tested stone – corner stone
Such
is Christ
Now
look at what Paul has to say in his letter to the Ephesians 2:19-22
19 Consequently, you are no longer foreigners and strangers, but
fellow citizens with God’s people and also members of his household,20 built on the foundation of the
apostles and prophets, with Christ Jesus himself as the chief
cornerstone.21 In him the whole building is joined
together and rises to become a holy temple in the Lord.22 And in him you too are being built
together to become a dwelling in which God lives by his Spirit.
No longer, but
fellow citizens, God’s people, members of his household
Look at the
foundation apostles, prophets, and Christ Jesus himself the chief cornerstone
Look at what he
says about the building – whole building – joins together – rises – becomes holy
temple in the Lord
And not just the
building – but “you too” us too – built together to be come a dwelling of God
by the Spirit
What a promise,
what a responsibility, what a distinction to live up to. . .
So discernment to
resolution is important but it must be up to the distinction, must be built on
the sure foundation. . .
But what does that
require. . . ?
What
about that choir anthem – uplifting and inspiring and powerful huh
The
first time I heard it I hated it. . . and maybe for the same reason that so
many liked it
It
very much appeals to what we at some level wish Christianity was
Simple
and easy – that if we just stand up, and not compromise and fight
At
first that was all I heard --a therapeutic
anger anthem, to make us feel good about the fight
We weren’t made to
cower, we were made to stand
Stand for what is
holy let us stand for what is right
Live our lives, as
a beacon in the night
No we will not
compromise
Again
my first impression, but I have to admit that it has grown on me
I
want to use the scene of Jesus trial and arrest to get at what I mean = about
how discernment and resolution require more of us
Matthew 26:47-56
Jesus Arrested
47 While he was still speaking, Judas, one of the Twelve,
arrived. With him was a large crowd armed with swords and clubs, sent from the
chief priests and the elders of the people.48 Now the betrayer had arranged a signal with them: “The one
I kiss is the man; arrest him.”49 Going at once to Jesus, Judas said, “Greetings, Rabbi!” and
kissed him.
50 Jesus replied, “Do what you came for, friend.”
Then
the men stepped forward, seized Jesus and arrested him.51 With that, one of Jesus’ companions reached for his sword, drew
it out and struck the servant of the high priest, cutting off his ear.
52 “Put your sword back in its place,” Jesus said to him, “for all who draw the sword will die by the
sword.53 Do you think I
cannot call on my Father, and he will at once put at my disposal more than
twelve legions of angels?54 But how then
would the Scriptures be fulfilled that say it must happen in this way?”
55 In that hour Jesus said to the crowd, “Am I leading a rebellion, that you have
come out with swords and clubs to capture me? Every day I sat in the temple
courts teaching, and you did not arrest me.56 But this has all taken place that the writings of the
prophets might be fulfilled.”Then all the disciples deserted him and fled.
Judas
– what he wants – Jesus to stand not compromise and take the romans down –
Jesus doesn’t
Sword
– Can you stand up for Jesus with no sword?
15 Now it was the governor’s custom at the festival to release a
prisonerchosen by the crowd.16 At
that time they had a well-known prisoner whose name was Jesus Barabbas.17 So when the crowd had gathered, Pilate asked them, “Which one
do you want me to release to you: Jesus Barabbas, or Jesus who is called the
Messiah?”18 For he
knew it was out of self-interest that they had handed Jesus over to him.
They
choose Barabbas
Jesus
always loses this trial
We
wish it were not so, we would fight to make it not so, we scream to the wind,
wanting to make a stand – not compromise, and let the church arise, wishing it
was not so, but it is
And
thank God
Because
of the Cross and its empty tomb
How
does this reflect our standing in todays world? –
It
means discernment is hard, I wish it wasn’t, but it is. . . it seemed easier
when the times were simpler, but it wasn’t, actually
But
the song is right we shouldn’t compromise, but that doesn’t mean we don’t
compromise, by standing and fighting,
It
means we don’t compromise on what exactly is the foundation and cornerstone of
our faith
Jesus
Christ – he calls us to carry our crose
It
is this we cannot compromise on
And
our discernment and resolution must be connected inseparably from Jesus Christ –
We
need to be uncompromised to the ways of Jesus Christ – and not fall into the
ways of the world
Even
if our hearts are trying to protect what we think is Jesus
So
I said the song grew on me and it did, because I could see it in this light. .
. and in this light was there any better way to get at this important
distinction
What
did the trick was the “Let the church arise part. . . ‘
And
the internal verses
All
the trouble in these times doesn’t catch Go by surprise
He’s still sovereign.
.
It is a prayer, not
a call to arms. . .
Let
the church arise – the let – suggest that it isn’t a call to arms, it’s a call
to discern
It
says answer when he calls. . .
Are
we called to yell and scream and fight in the same way that others fight?
Spaceballs
– Evil will always triumph because good is dumb. . .
Yes,
but sin is arrogant. . . and over reaching. . . it grabs a sword and fights
Jesus
puts down the sword and picks up the cross and stands for the world to see atop
a hill called Calvary – that is the beacon in the nigrht and it pierces through
the darkness.