Humility and Shining
A
sermon delivered by Rev. Peter T. Atkinson
February
19, 2017
at
Gordonsville Presbyterian Church, Gordonsville, Virginia
Philippians
2: 5-16
Let us pray,
Help us to see despite
our eyes
Help us to think outside
of our minds
Help us to be more than
our lives
For your eyes show the
way
Your
mind knows the truth
Your
being is the life.
Amen.
I’m
breaking from the Lectionary this morning. . . I’ve never been all that
disciplined to it in the first place. But this morning I wanted to preach from
one of my favorite epistles. Ever since Seminary, this epistle, the Letter to
the Philippians has always been my favorite. It holds so many of the great and
memorable lines and quotations. So many that I wanted to include a second portion
in addition to the New Testament Lesson. I’ll read in a moment, as the Prayer of
Meditation this morning, containing that famous phrase, “I can do all things
through Christ who gives me strength.” And the other leading up to that, whatever is true, whatever is
honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is pleasing, whatever
is commendable, if there is any excellence and if there is anything worthy of
praise, think about these things. . .
Just
beautiful, but this morning I want to look at something that has been on my
mind this week. We are called to live out a strange dichotomy as Christians of
having humility and at the same time letting our lights shine; being humble,
knowing the weakness and meekness that makes us up, but in the idea that the
weak become strong through the power of Jesus Christ, knowing and living into
the amazing things that we can do with Christ’s perfect strength, not shrinking
from them. Listen to this morning’s reading. In it you will hear one of the
great hymns of the humble example of Christ, but then following straight after
is yet another call to for us to let our lights shine, rather than hiding them
under a bushel to bring us back to the Sermon on the Mount, like we’ve been
looking at the last few weeks. Listen, Philippians 2: 5-16
6 who,
though he was in the form of God,
did not regard equality with God
as something to be exploited,
7 but emptied himself,
taking the form of a slave,
being born in human likeness.
And being found in human form,
8 he humbled himself
and became obedient to the point of death—
even death on a cross.
did not regard equality with God
as something to be exploited,
7 but emptied himself,
taking the form of a slave,
being born in human likeness.
And being found in human form,
8 he humbled himself
and became obedient to the point of death—
even death on a cross.
9 Therefore
God also highly exalted him
and gave him the name
that is above every name,
10 so that at the name of Jesus
every knee should bend,
in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
11 and every tongue should confess
that Jesus Christ is Lord,
to the glory of God the Father.
and gave him the name
that is above every name,
10 so that at the name of Jesus
every knee should bend,
in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
11 and every tongue should confess
that Jesus Christ is Lord,
to the glory of God the Father.
12 Therefore,
my beloved, just as you have always obeyed me, not only in my presence, but
much more now in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and
trembling; 13 for it is God who is at work in you, enabling you
both to will and to work for his good pleasure.
14 Do
all things without murmuring and arguing, 15 so that you may be
blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a
crooked and perverse generation, in which you shine like stars in the world. 16 It
is by your holding fast to the word of life that I can boast on the day of
Christ that I did not run in vain or labor in vain.
Perhaps the thing that I am the
absolute worst at in all the world, above all else, is selling myself. Do you
have that problem, too? I can sell an idea, I can sell the greatness of someone
else, I can even stand in front of a group of teenage boys and sell Dante,
Homer, Virgil, Socrates, Keats and Wordsworth, Jesus, even Shakespeare, I can
even stand in front of you all and sell Shakespeare, and perhaps if you can do
that you can sell ice to an eskimo or however the story goes, but I have the
worst time selling myself. And it’s strange because it is usually caught up in
the dichotomy I want to talk about this morning. We as Christians, as children
of God, as disciples and followers of Christ have a double legacy, a conflict
that we must live in and find our way through. In one way we are called to
emulate Christ, in his humility. Let the same mind be in you that was in Christ
Jesus, who though he was equal to God, did not regard his equality as something
to be exploited, but emptied himself, in human form, like a slave, he humbled
himself to the point of death. . . it’s very much like turning the other cheek,
right, going along. . . it is the meek for instance whom inherit the Earth
afterall, right. . . But on the other side, there is this call, and it is just
as constant as the call to humility, that calls us to let our lights shine, let
the Light of Christ Shine, for you are the Light of the World, a royal
priesthood, the children of God, those whom in Christ, Christ can do all
things. . . both ideas are here in this epistle back to back, being humble like
Christ, and then shining like stars in the world. . . so how do you know, when
to be humble, and when to let your light shine.
There is nothing that drives me more
crazy than someone who is arrogant, who is constantly talking about how great
they are, what they’ve done, what they’ve accomplished, one of those who is a
one upper, you know the type, who always
has a story, you tell a story, and they have one, that always is one upping it,
and it would be fine if it were only once and a while, but no it is every time.
. . there was this SNL skit a number of years ago, with Kristen Wiig, the
character’s name was Penelope, and she’d sit there and twirl her hair, and any
time someone would say anything, she’d just twirl away and one up it. . .
someone would say I have a dog, and she’d say oh yes, I have a dog, it’s a big
dog, probably bigger than yours, so. . . ok. . . . and then the person would
say oh yeah I have a cat too, and Penelope would say, Yes I have a cat, I
actually have two cats, so that’s ok that’s better than yours, and one of them
happens to be a tiger, so. . . You know the type, and the reason the sketch is
so funny is we all know someone who is like that. . . it’s the worst, and part
of being humble is to avoid being that.
We also cannot turn the tv on
without seeing athletes, celebrities, politicians, talking heads, everyone, is
so sure, that they absolutely know, they know what you should do, what you
should care about, what you should think. . . and it doesn’t matter how wrong
they were a week ago, they are talking again, and just as sure that they are right,
and that they know. . . and they are paid to be arrogant. . . and we find that
odious . . . and so with those types of things always in the back of your mind.
. . and more. . . how do you ever begin to sell yourself? How often do you hold
back even though you do have a story because you don’t want to be “that guy”?
How often do you hold back the idea you have because you don’t want to appear a
know it all. . . where is the line?
How do you, in a world where
everyone is being aggressive and where arrogance sells, how do you find a way
in, how do you let your light shine? How do you begin to sell yourself, while
still holding on to your conscience, that voice in your head that wonders, did
I cross a line there? Did I just become what I disdain? It’s hard. . . but we
are called to let our lights shine, and frankly the world needs us to let our
lights shine. . .
I was watching a movie this week,
maybe you have seen it, it is called “Thirteen Days”. . . . it was probably
made about 10 years ago or so. . . it is about the Cuban Missile Crisis, and
Kevin Costner plays Kenny O’Donnell, President Kennedy’s special political
advisor, and with Bobby Kennedy, the three of them plus the whole cabinet, wade
through the Thirteen Days where we were closer than we’ve ever been to Nuclear
War. . . it is a fascinating movie because it shows the inner workings of the
White House, the cabinet, security advisors, Joint-Chiefs, handling of the
Press—fascinating in today’s world, thinking of the turmoil of the last two
weeks with our new executive branch. . . but who wants to go there, especially in
a sermon about the odiousness of arrogance, right?. . . . but there is this
point where the three of them, JFK, RFK and O’Donnell, are talking, unwinding,
being second guessed by every military advisor they have, all much older men. .
. and JFK says, “it kinda makes you wonder why we wanted this job in the first
place,” and O’Donnell jokes at first saying it was for the money. . . . then
laughs and says, you know why we wanted it, because we knew that we could do it
better than any one else.
That stuck with me because that is
the way you have to think about it if you are going to shine your light. And
that is not arrogant, he didn’t mean it that way, he just had the resolve, to
know that he was called to the action, and that skills he was given by God were
right, exactly right, the perfect fit for that time and place. . . I don’t know
if that happened in real life with Kennedy, but it was powerful for me this
week.
Humility is a funny thing, because
it really can work like an excuse for hiding our light under a bushel. False
humility where you sell yourself short, either in your own mind, or out loud to
others. We were talking about humility in class. . . as the opposite of pride.
. . as if pride is thinking too highly of yourself, so I asked them what they
thought humility was, and most of them said, thinking too low of yourself. . .
as if it was just as much of a character flaw as pride, as opposed to a virtue,
humility like that is not a virtue at all, in the Old Testament, we see Moses
selling himself short to God, we wouldn’t call that humility, we’d call it
fear, cowardice. . . not a virtue at all, but a scared hiding of his light. . .
so I posed the idea, perhaps humility, if it is a virtue, that the virtue of
humility is actually self awareness, to know and accept your faults, but also
know your strengths, to know and appreciate the gifts you’ve been given. It
made a lot of sense to me and to them, in theory it’s great, but in practice,
we still feel the need to hold back.
And here is the shame of it, too, we
think, we assume, we believe that other people already know, that they already
see our light burning, because we know ourselves so well, we’re sure that we’ve
already let them know, and to repeat it would just be laying it on too thick. .
. I actually think that social media makes this phenomenon so much worse, but
it was bad to begin with, but with our cyber lives, we put things up, ads for
ourselves, and we assume that everyone knows everything that we have posted
online. . . but what percentage do they actually know, we are never sure. . . we
think they do, but people really don’t know us, we don’t know each other, even
as well as we think we do, and I promise you that other people actually think
about you much, much less than you think they do. There is a great quote about
it, and I looked and looked for it but couldn’t find it, but it is about the
idea when you are young you think everyone is thinking about you, so you care
what others think, but as you get older, you realize no one was thinking about
you at all. . . . that’s true, but we sell ourselves short often because we
think other people already know, we assume. . . and we fall into this trap of
false humility, selling ourselves short.
Here is the other side of it too, I
don’t think it is just ourselves, I think we run into this same trap, at
church, when we think about evangelism. . . no one wants to be the pushy
Christian, the flashy Christian, the arrogant, self-righteous Christian, so we
rarely talk about Jesus, our faith, or our church with others. We hold back,
even though for many of us, it is a central and irreplaceable piece of our
lives, the very foundation it all stands on. You all give so much to this
church. . . . it is a part of you, but how often do you feel comfortable
inviting someone else into it, into this world, for a Sunday morning, for some
other occasion, or simply for a conversation about what we are all about. . .
and just like we assume people know us, we also assume that people know what
church is about, but they don’t. People have no clue, and they want to know,
and I honestly think that I want us to be the ones to tell them. . . . I even
have trouble saying that without feeling that humility alarm go off. . . but I
do, there are so many misconceptions out there about who Jesus is, what church
is, what the message is, what the challenges are. . . I happen to believe in my
very core, that what we say, what we hold up as Presbyterians, our Reformed
Understanding of faith is the needed message in our world, but why do we hold
that message back?
I want us as brothers and sisters in
Christ to really think about this, both on a personal and on a church level. .
. I think we can really help each other with this, make each other comfortable
with sharing our stories, each others stories, to become a church that
celebrates our gifts, each other’s gifts, our own gifts, and the gifts that we
as this little church have to offer the world, or at least our immediate
community. . . and maybe that can then help us encourage each other to share
our message, our unique message, a witness of the very Lordship of Jesus Christ
with world. We need to learn to help each other as Brothers and Sisters in
Christ to live out the famous quote by Mariane Williamson:
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we
are powerful beyond measure. It is our light,
not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be
brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not
to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people will not feel
insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to
make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us;
it is in everyone and as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give
others permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our
presence automatically liberates others.
Let us seek in the next few weeks,
and maybe to start to find tangible ways, during Lent, to do just that, 40
days, of shining lights would be an amazing start. Let’s begin thinking today
about what we can do. If you have ideas let me know, I’ll be thinking too, and
maybe, just maybe we can plan something meaningful for Lent to push this
forward. Ash Wednesday is in 10 days. . . let’s think until then. . . that
night with ashes on our forehead, having been reminded of our mortality and
weakness, we be set free to begin something very real. Until then. . . amen.
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